My Anthem

Sunday, March 05, 2006

Have you been to Paradise?

When Desiderata started his Blog, Sundaes were spent on promoting Da Bard's language. EXQUISITE ENGLISH-lah! in my not-so-Modesty Blaise-y expresssed quest. But recent SUNDAE INTER:LUDES were spent more on Light&Easy rumination, jamboree, razzmatazz style, anything also-can!
And I had sought from Jan 1, 2006 my EsteemedReaders' participation and contributions so that Desi can R&R on Sundays -- hence, my sending out 999, 991 or SOS calls, whatever!
A barrel of Haridas tehtarik thrown in, CON BF also-can, butt you have to track Desi down first, through the FuRong Maze.

And today I especially need your help a li'l. GIVE ME A RESPONSE, a lengthy one can? I'll arrange DHL to send the barel and Da Con, but you must give me your CON address, and that's NOT advisable! I'm sure your Papa and Grandma had warned thee, Li'l Red Riding Hood, Beware the BB Wolf!Yes, I know Mama is beesy playing Mahjong!
Big Bad Wolfish Seremban catching onto Koala Lumpuh!


I have often wondered what the lyricist of this wonderfool song wanted to share with us listeners.

WHAT IS YOUR PERCEPTION OF THE SONG'S MEaNING ..

Uplifting, de-meAning or day-dreAming?
Please TELL ME!


Never Been to Me


Hey lady --- you, lady
Cursing at your life
You're a disconnected mother
And a regimented wife
I've no doubt you dream about
The things you'll never do
But I wish someone'd had a talk to me
Like I wanna talk to you


Ooh, I've been to Georgia
And California, and
Anywhere I could run
I took the hand of a
preacher man, and we
Made love in the sun

But I ran out of places and friendly faces
Because I had to be free --
I've Been To Paradise
But I've Never Been To Me


DESIDERATA:


Here's some preliminary rumination allowed and aloud by Desi:
The Subject is trying to share some lessons with "her" mates, I presumed quite safely it's a SHE -- and her "mates" could be male, female, close or far, known or stranger -- about her Life's experiences.
She definitely is a traveller, vagabond maybe -- covering grounds from Georgia to "anywhere I ould run".
I wonder - Does it not reflect the person in you, and ME?

And I'm sure she found her moments in Paradise, hence --
I took the hand of a
preacher man, and we
Made love in the sun


Anyone would tell you if there is anywhere on earth close to Paradise, it's in the arms of a loving man/woman ... okay, in this od worlde, I'd even allow for the embrace of-the-in-betweens...

I have HIGHLIGHTED (bolded-lah!)some points in the lyrics and will chew over them and come back later at TWILIGHT TIME to elaborate (my brain seems to roll out better with fading light!).

Meanwhile, Back to YOUR interpretation of the song/poem. please REVERT BY 6.45PM TODAE, will you?
Please share openly thy closest secrets, answering:

Q1: Have you been to Paradise?

Q2: what did/does that Paradise constitute?

Q3:
Is that Paradise fleeting, permanent, or in-between?

Before writing this Post, I traversed to mGf nigh Catsville and she (yan, at http://yancorner.blogspot.com) coincidentally reflected on Heaven, and how we need to become li'l children again to touch Heaven.
Good food for Sunday's reflection, I told myself as I enjoyed my CON.

I hope to continue my deep thots come 7.00PM, so beat me to IT! That's a plea, yes, begging, okay, a ROYAL COMMAND!See, treating my readers as Kings, Queens, Princes, Puteri and ..... some odd Paupers like Desi!:)


:


At one helen of desTROY trip, I learnt that one MEATLOAF , sandwiched between some chich in some inclined well nigh impossible position trying to get to Heaven, ... had a luvly song about

PARADISE BY THE DASHBOARD LIGHTS!
as Boy&Gal do it for the first time in Dad's jalopy at da Lake Gardens.
Seremban's one rivals that of Taioping which according to kyels, is the Besta north of Koala Lumpur. The one in Penang jest has too many Monkeys around!

jest a peep at the Boy&Gal duet:

Boy:)

And now our bodies are oh so close and tight
It never felt so good, it never felt so right
And we're glowing like the metal on the edge of a knife
C'mon! Hold on tight!
C'mon! Hold on tight!


Though it's cold and lonely in the deep dark night
I can see paradise by the dashboard light
Paradise by the dashboard light


You got to do what you can
And let Mother Nature do the rest
Ain't no doubt about it
We were doubly blessed
Cause we were barely seventeen
And we were barely--

We're gonna go all the way tonight
We're gonna go allt he way
An tonight's the night...



Recent meetings with some mGf and chatting about unfoofilled careers -- like Desi wanting to become a lawyer -- this scribe tried to steer some YoungOnes into the path trodden by maddish, fadish and gladdish people like Ally McBeal, get get what I mean?

So if you are a Young Seagull somewhere still exploring the foreign horizons like a JL Seagull, think a while and see if you have been to Paradise?
And more importantly,
HAVE YOU BEEN TO "U"?

It's NONE TO LATE to follow Ally McBeal's footsteps,
seeking that
Rainbow round the bend,
see if you can perceive a whisper of an ANSWER
now blowing in the wintry wind outside thy window,
listen with thy heart, a Shepard's Voice:


- Home Again

From album: Ally McBeal: For Once In My Life

[Originally by Carole King]

Sometimes I wonder if I'm ever gonna make it home again
It's so far and out of sight.
I really need someone to talk to, and nobody else
Knows how to comfort me tonight.
Snow is cold, rain is wet,
Chills my soul right to the marrow.
I won't be happy till I see you alone again,
Till I'm home again and feelin right.


Snow is cold, rain is wet,
Chills my soul right to the marrow.
I won't be happy till I see you alone again,
Till I'm home again and feelin' right,
Till I'm home again and feelin' right,
I wanna be home again and feelin' right.

3 comments:

Primrose said...

Wow, that's going to be a difficult question to answer. There are varying answers as to what Paradise mean to individuals. It can be a place for some, some delicious food tasted for others, it can be err...having an orgasmic experience (if you know what I mean)...hmmm...

sweetspirits said...

I've been to paradise but i've never been 2 me ;) as for meatloaf i use 2 luv their music n lyrics , you know at a concert on the Gold Coast he fell off stage and broke his leg ,but stayed n finished the concert.
Damn that must of been painful , i broke my foot at 8.30 am in the morning " few yrs back" took kids to school done all my work then took boys to gkr , n went to hosptial at 8pm.
My friends said i was crazy ,maybe i am hehe.

Okz Desi im off 2 bed soon have tonsilitis...
But here are the Lyrics to My Fav Meatloaf song

Meatloaf Lyrics - Two Out Of Three Aint Bad Lyrics

Baby we can talk a-all night, but that ain't getting us nowhere
I told you everything I possibly can, there's nothin' left inside of here
And maybe you can cry a-all night, but that'll never cha-ange the way that I feel
The snow is really piling up outside, I wish you wouldn't make me lea-eave here
I poured it on and I poured it ou-out, I tried to show you just how much I care
I'm tired of words and I'm too hoarse to shout
But you've been cold to me so long, I'm cryin' icicles instead of tears

And all I can do, is keep on tellin' you
I want you (I want you), I need you (I need you)
But there ain't no way-ay I'm ever gonna lo-ove you
Now don't be sad (don't be sad 'cause)
'Cause two out of three ai-ain't bad
Now don't - be-ee sad, ('cause) 'cause two out of three ain't bad

You'll never find your go-old on a sandy beach
You'll never drill for oil on a city street
I know you're lookin' for a ruby in a mountain of rocks
But there ain't no Coupe de Ville hidin' at the bottom of a Cracker Jack box

I can't lie (I can't lie...)
I can't tell you that I'm somethin' I'm not
No matter how I try, I'll never be able
To give you somethin', somethin' that I just haven't got (woh-oh)

Well there's only one girl that I will ever love
And that was so many year-ears ago
And though I know I'll never get her out of my heart
She never loved me back, ooh-ooh I know

Well I remember how she left me on a stormy night
Ahh, she kissed me and got out of our bed
And though I pleaded and I begged her not to walk out that door
She packed her bags and turned right away-ay-ay
And she kept on tellin' me, she kept on telling me

Now i realise i like soo many of their songs , back in tha day
Like " Heaven Can Wait ..
You Took the words right outta my mouth..

cheerz

JOEPSC said...

Hi Desi,

If "Paradise" has the same meaning as the biblical paradise, the Garden of Eden, where Adam and Eve lived in total happiness, having not the knowledge of fear, shame, pain, etc. until that fateful bite of the forbidden fruit, then no one here has been there.

If "Paradise" is as what Jesus said on the cross to the thief next to Him "I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise" (Luke 23.43), then, if anyone here has been there, she/he has to be an angel.



The incomplete song you posted "I've Never Been To Me" was an old song, sung by various singers, Charlene, Tracy Huang, etc.

To me, it is a very sad song, about living in fantasies, in dreams (icy like my blog), in imagination, of places, people and a carefree life that we want or make them to be. We all have fantasies, just like you have your spiriteDestination, about what is "TO BE HAPPY, TO FEEL LOVE, AND BE FREE". Here in the song, a woman must have felt imprisoned by her lifestyle, and seeks to search for that destination, called "Paradise" in her mental landscape, where she believes she can be happy and free (by her own criteria).

She travelled much, to Geogia, California; even to Monte Carlo, Niece and Greece ! But sadly, what she thought was "Paradise" was actually a lie, a fantasy (in later verses of the song) - there were no "ideal" place to run to or hide in or be free or be happy - and she was trying to explain this FALLACY to one discontented mother/wife, in whom, she saw some similarity in their outlook of life. That's why, she said "I wish someone had talked to me, like I wanna talk to you"

The most difficult line, yet the most "heart-wrenching" part, in the song is "I've Been To Paradise, But I've Never Been To Me". My take is this: "I have been everywhere, searching for that elusive Paradise, but NEVER have I search within MYSELF" The elusive "Paradise" in within ourselves - when we understand our own predicament and accept it, and live as happily as we possibly can, then we have found our "Paradise".

The main gist of the song lies in one subsequent verse:

"Hey, you know what paradise is?
It's a lie, a fantasy we create about people and places as we'd like them to be
But you know what truth is?
It's that little baby you're holding, it's that man you fought with this morning
The same one you're going to make love with tonight
That's truth, that's love......"

Now, your Q1:
The thing that came closest to "Paradise" was when me and my Japanese guest were flying back from Jakarta on a Garuda plane, during one sunset, and the view of the clear white clouds hanging ouside the plane for hundreds of miles, the golden ray of the sun piercing through them, and the soft keroncong music of the cabin, all happening in harmony, certainly was blissful and heavenly; so blissful that my guest told me repeatedly he would not mind dying there and then !

Q2. "Paradise" has to be figment of the mind or a fantasy of a state of extreme happiness, that we create to transport ourselves into the realm of heavenly bliss, just like "nirvana", but it is an icy dream to me.

Q3. Being a fantasy, it is fleeting, but some people can hold it as long as they can sit in meditation. It can be helpful to destress oneself.