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Monday, October 20, 2008

playGIArhythming away mondae blues

I knew Dr Mave -- I dunno know if his doctor is medical,philosophical or sochai! -- from some three GOoD years ago via blogging. We later met up physically and since bantered a little. Like chickens on the run.

This morning I feel privileged to bollow without his AP some rumination which should appropriately APpear 24 earlier.
But you can't bring back time.But we can adjust our mindset. Treat mondae blues as sundae's ruminACTION and thou'll be GOoD!:)

Cheers, YL, Desi, knottyaSsusual


Monday, October 20, 2008

From maverickysm.blogspot.com:)

I am back

I am back to KL.


Glad to know that Chua Soi Lek is back to helm MCA, and most likely, back to cabinet. Chinese can accept a leader who is courageous to admit his own actions. He deserved to be the deputy president of MCA. I hope he can reinvent MCA. However, he may face difficulty as he has to work with Ong Tee Keat.


I need a rest after five grueling days. Both of my legs are in great pain, probably due to stress. The coming week would equally be hectic and grueling.

Before I say goodnight (ah, it's good morning), I just like to share an abstract of the philosophical thoughts by Grayling on friendship, relationship and parting:


Friendship & Relationship: Human beings are essentially social animals. Relationships are vital to our well-being. Intimate relationships may be few in numbers and idiosyncratic in character and plays a deep role in making us what we are. But friendship have the majority influence in determining the shape of our social personae, especially in the formative period between the second and forth decades of our lifes.

Therefore, one good way to know what sort of person someone really is, is to examine not the friends but the friendships he has maintained through time.

However, it is important not to restrict the idea of friendship to current living beings, for, one can have friendships with those dead and gone, including those characters in the books, historical figures, animals and in particular, those whom we have not met but has somewhat become friends in the cyber-world.

The key lies in who we talk to, and who we listen to, on what really concerns us. What we discuss with friends stays alive in the relationship thereafter, affecting its course and influence the character of the parties to it.

Aristotle described a friend as "another self", and that is sometimes true enough to make a friend the deceiver we need when we need to be deceived, and the absolver we need when we need absolution. But more importantly still, friends are the others we need, and who need us, for the sake of the difference and connectedness which give us the feedback, the testing ground, the support and the acceptably modulated challenges that condition us, and the companionship and merriment that keep us sane.

In a world full of enmity it is always interesting to contemplate the nature of friendship. A friend is a person who gives without being asked; who understands, or tries to, who rejoices at good fortune and supports through bad; who tells unpleasant truths and pleasant untruths when either is necessary; whose affection is freely given, and who makes the innocent and proper assumption that all the claims, expectations, rights and duties of this vital and valuable human bonds are reciprocal.

To treat a friend as another self is always to will the best for the other person for his/her own sake. However, friendship, once made, need tending and nothing replaces time together, in circumstances where other pressures are lifted so that the gates of communication can spring open, allowing free trade to pass between.

Parting: Partings might be endings, or new beginnings; they might be too temporary for the sweet sorrow they are poetically identified with, or, they might leave wounds that either take too long to heal, or never do heal.

The idea of parting of the ways offers a conundrum: you come to the parting, and do not know which road to take in order to reach your destination. You do not know which is, yet you are allowed only one question: what can you ask?

No matter what the circumstances, to part from anything of value, whether people or things, is to forfeit something of oneself. It is as if the other entity has grown into one, suggesting the reason for describing oneself as attached to it. Like the well known lyric:

To leave is to die a little;
It is to die to what one loves;
One leaves behind a little oneself;
At any hour, any place."

Every progression through life is a parting from what went before. Parting do teach us that, to gain you have to give up, that to be alive is to change, and that change involves the death of current so that they can become the past.

Optimistically, we see a fresh beginning in every parting. However, too many beginnings make for few endings. In fact, rather few partings are endings.

The answer to the conundrum of the forked road is: you ask one of the men to point out the road that the other man would say is your route. And then, since the pointed road will be wrong, you take the other road.

The right road is usually clear to anyone who will give some thought to the puzzle of which, among so many wrong roads, is the right one, for truth and falsehood combine to give truth whenever ways reach a parting.



Reference: A.C. Grayling: The Heart of Things.

4 comments:

Donplaypuks® said...

I can't agree with this crap!!

Yes, CSL did the right thing in owning up to his extra-curricular activities and deserves much credit for it.

But from there to No.2 in MCA is the stuff of fairy tales, a quantum leap that will send a poor message to our youth and children -that it's ok to cheat on your wife and still aspire for higher office.

But remember, he only owned up when caught out. Who's to say what other skeletons he has in his cupboard? And that is why leaders of political parties must have impeccable credentials if they are to be trusted and respected.

And don't tell me that there are not enough other qualified and honest candidates ot there.

The return of CSL is scraping the barrel and will hasten the demise of MCA for sure.
http://donplaypuks.blogspot.com

Maverick SM said...

Desi,

Thank you for posting this piece of blob. However, I love the philosophy.

BTW, CSL had sex with a girl, was it wrong to have sex with a girl other than our wife? Being caught on video by conspirators - those who had a morally unsound mala fide mens rea, I suppose is far more obnoxious than the actor himself. I wonder how many men did not cheat their wife in their span of life. I admit I do, and if that's morally wrong, then that person who passed this judgment must be far greater than Jesus Christ himself.

chong y l said...

DPP:

thanks for thy differing view from Mave's and Desi's as far as CSL's abencha (etra marital) was concerned.
To me,it's between his wife and family --as Mave rightly pointed ot in the latter comment, it's the CONSPIRATORS who have committed the greater wrong?sin.

In politics, we are not looking for saints -- and neither is Teresa Kok one though some tried to anoint her in the same league and Mother Theresa... I shalt go along with some human lables.

By the way, Dr Mave was generally applauding Chua's comeback triumph which is not an easy task, hence I too salute the "CHANGE" thatMCA delegates were bent on -- throwing out nepotism (Ong plus Ong = no wong!) Two +ves become wan negative?

chong y l said...

mave sm:
This is NOT a confessional -- for that you must travel to Rome, I live in Furong where all the burung are beaut:) but some land up in the puuridge:(

And there are many Anak Merdeka so shy they won't go near where Desi offereth flee kopi!:)

Like you, brudder Mave, I enjoy philosophy2; maybe I'll bring ye and DPP together at Lingam's to banter ... the desibelles may be hi enuf to bring AM out of the woods!:) he he haw haw