In Desi's short life on mother Earth, from my experience, my definitive answer. A resonding NO. With TIME, the pain, will lessen BUT THE GRIEF HITS YOU ALL OVER AGAIN when you are AL1.
Yesterday as I watched CNN's Breaking News on the primary school shooting in Connecticut, USA, it's Deja VU all over again for the American people, I'm sure. A heavy price to pay for the ease with which Americans caneasily buy firearms over the counter. Just one snippet of the tragedy, from CNN who provided Live coverage which I viewed :~~~~
PS: Can I use a Bee Gees' song this occasion to express the feelings of the young victims' parents and family members; WHY, one often ask at such times, DOES IT HAPPEN TO THE INNOCENT "YOUNG ONES" -- their life snuffed out in the seonds from a "deranged" armed man who obviously had lost the sanity of a normal mind. The Bee Gees's via LINK: